Either Way I Want to Go.

Marriage is hard. Everyone says that.But you know what makes it hard? The constant struggle of wanting to put yourself first instead of your love... at least that is why my hubby and I struggle. It is so hard to give up what you want for the other person... it is so hard to make their needs more important than your own. It is so easy to grow stubborn and selfish and insist you won't go any further with your love unless your own wants and needs are met- then it becomes either one person trying to drag the other along or both refusing to move at all.My hubby and I have the 'opposites attract' kind of relationship- while our values and faith are one in the same, our personalities are drastically different. I am of the emotional and creative mind, while he is of the rational and analytical mind. It is perfect for us (most of the time)... we balance each other out so well. He is my ground and I am his clouds. Of course it causes a few issues too.We have a particularly significant area in our relationship where we don't yet have an agreement. I used to struggle with it so much. I was scared for what the future would bring. I learned back when we thought we would loose our new home to just let it go and I am learning that lesson again. I'm not scared anymore. I still don't know what we are going to eventually agree on... I don't know if I'm going to have to sacrifice something I've always wanted or if he may change his mind someday. But either way I want to be with him. Either way he is more important to me. Either way I love him. Either way I want to face this mountain with him.

Either way I want to go.

quote : either way by beta radio.